"Is This Lady Using Me?"

I got this mail from a Thomasloadite. Please read and advice this dude.

Read the unedited mail below:

I want u to post it.

I dated a girl during my school days, though we broke up doing my finals, but we have had sex several times, but not that intimate anymore, we sometimes chatted, visit each other, but she has a boyfriend & she said it over between us, but if I didn't speak to her like 2 weeks, she will be angry, calling me that I have abandoned her, though she stays with the new boyfriend, but if she needs help financially, she always runs to me, presently she needs another financial help, 

Please, am i been used by her or there a bit of me inside her, I need help.