You should build “You” before you ever think about building a marriage- Actor Majid Michel says

The Ghanaian actor shared these wise words
about marriage and relationships on his IG page.
Read below

You should build “YOU” before you ever
think about building a marriage. "i will die
without you.” “i cannot live without you.”
“if you go away, my world will
crumble.” who said these are romantic
statements? Those statements are not
romantic!
They reflect an addictive dependency.
instead of being addicted to a substance,
you are addicted to a person. "i need a
man.” “i need a woman.” No!! you need
God!! and you need His holiness. God is
saying, "please get your act together as an
unmarried person. Get your standards and
values settled". if you cannot control your
emotions, your passions, your feelings,
your attitudes, your bad habits or your
behavior as you are single now, then you
are not prepared for marriage. if you need
to get married to be fulfilled or loved, you
are not ready for marriage. The very thing
that makes you need to get married will
become the problem in your marriage.
Men, before you go chasing a woman,
make sure she is someone you can chase
until death do you part. Discover yourself
first. Know yourself and find yourself
through Christ before you start looking for
a partner. All your secrets and depression
and frustration and baggage and all your
issues. if you look at yourself, you
yourself will not want to take yourself
home. Yet you want someone to take you
home. i'm scared of anyone who is
impatient for marriage. Cos u are just a
parasite looking for a host. Be an asset to
your partner not a deficit.